ABOUT ME

There’s a moment when the life you built starts to feel too tight.
From the outside, it looks fine. But inside? You know you’re disappearing.

I’ve been there.

For years, I did everything I was supposed to. Ran a business. Stayed married. Smiled on cue. I was successful on paper—and slowly suffocating in real life.

I didn’t blow it all up overnight. It started with a whisper I couldn’t ignore: You’re gay. You’re exhausted. This isn’t it.
And finally, I listened.

Coming out in my 40s wasn’t just about being gay. It was about being honest. With myself. With everyone else. It meant stripping away all the layers of who I thought I needed to be—and finding the courage to live as who I actually am.

Now? I help other women do the same.

I coach midlife women who are done pretending. Women standing at the edge of something they can’t name yet—questioning their marriage, their job, their identity, their entire damn life—and wondering if it’s too late to change.

It’s not.

Most of us don’t need a total life overhaul. We just need to stop lying to ourselves about the one we’re in.

This isn’t self-help fluff. It’s real, uncomfortable, life-altering work. And it’s worth it.

If you’re ready to get honest—and build something real—I’m here.

Ready to talk?

No pressure. No pitch. Just a real conversation about what’s next.